Was it a random breakup, or did she already have plans to leave before you knew it?

As someone who has studied infidelity and experienced both sides of it, I can tell you that there are different types of affairs. There are emotional affairs that started off as close friends. There are affairs that happened because on party felt insecure. And then, there’s the exit affair.

An…

It might not be the cat’s fault if women prefer a creature that shits in a box over their date.

Lately, I began to notice something a bit strange about male behavior online. Around 90 percent of men bemoaning the problems of the dating scene try harder or just decide that it’s better to stop pursuing women. It’s cool.

The other 10 percent are very, very vocal with the anger…

We need to be honest and say it’s a shit deal for women. (Trigger Warning: Doctor abuse/Reproductive coercion/Suicide)

We, as a society, have a deeply unspoken open secret. It’s one too many people try to hide. That secret is one that is often discussed in hush-hush mom circles, often over copious bottles of alcohol.

The secret is actually something that is purposefully downplayed in society: modern motherhood is…

After working as a porn journalist since 2017, I learned a lot about desire and what people overlook.

Being in the world of porn gives you a perspective on sex that most others have. I mean, when you're talking to people whose livelihood involves catering to people’s fantasies, you’re bound to have a better understanding of sex, sexuality, and more.

The funny thing about being in the sex…

Ossiana Tepfenhart

I’m a weirdo who loves to write. Deal with it. Available for hire.

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